Life is about choices

I believe that life is about choices.

Whatever choices you had made, it made you who you are now.

And whatever choices you had made, you have to take the consequences as part of it no matter how bad and painful it is.

I believe that everybody has their own path that reflect from their choices.

So, are you willing to create your own path and making the choices?

Another Thought

Is there a perfect soulmate somewhere for me?

We believe that all relationships in our lives are to teach us and to help us grow spiritually. We also believe that soulmates (and there may be more than one) are in our lives to help us to learn our spiritual lessons. A soulmate may be someone in your life who constantly gets "under your skin" or may be someone who you have deep, intimate relationship with. We believe that we are soulmates because there was an instant feeling of "coming home" when we got together and everyday recognize how we help one another in our spiritual growth.
We believe that perfect mate that you refer to is certainly out there but you have to be ready and you have to be willing to be conscious in your relationship. If you haven't attracted that "perfect" soulmate, try visualizing what you what. What would your life be like with this person?
What would you do together? Also, we suggest that you look at yourself. Are you type of person who would attract your idea of perfect soulmate? If not, start today being that type of person to the people who currently in your life.

You can have more than one Soulmate in a lifetime

Twin Flames are very different and very rare. Twin Flames are two people in two separate bodies that share same soul. Twin Flames meet each other in their first incarnation so that they remember the soul frequency of the other being. They are then usually reunited on their last time to this planet. If Twin Flames meet before they are ready they can be the total opposite and not at all compatible. When Twin Flames meet and are ready for each other, it is the most enjoyable experience possible on earth.
At this point, Twin Flames are almost identical. They truly compliment each other and it is a hardship for them to be apart. As an outside observer it is sometimes hard to distinguish the two people. They are also have a very strong bond and oftern have telepathy with each other.

Taken from http://www.soulmaterelationships.com/soulmatearticles/soulmatedefinition.html

The One

How can you be so sure that he's/ she's the right one for you? Does he/she the right person that God sent you so you can spend the rest of your life with him/her? But what if he/she's not the one?

Yesterday, i attended my friend's 2nd wedd. 2nd huh? Yeahhh...... her hubby died when she was 4 month pregnan with 1st child (am sorry for her), but God still loves her as He gives someone that truly love her with current condition (along with excess bagage from 1st hubby), So they got married last night (congratulation guys...am happy for you). I just wish that her new hubby would love her child as if he's his.

But my query more to this question. The one for you should be the one that you marry, is that correct?
So, how about that kind of condition, your 1st partner died or even divorce and then you get married with someone else, so which one is the one??
Does the 1st one, or the 2nd one?

As i am wondering, which one is my mom's soulmate. Could it be my dad (he passed away when i was in high school) or maybe her's current hubby as he's with her till death do their part?

Or what if the case is like this? My Grandpa has 2 wives or even more (lika Wong solo owner)?
So, which one is his soulmate? Or which one is the one?
Or maybe God sent them all for him? Maybe God loves him so much so God gave more than one soulmate? Well, God works in a mysterious way.

I can't let go that thought, just wondering.......