Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Mencintai atau dicintai?

Kalau boleh memilih mungkin kita akan memilih untuk mendapatkan partner yang compatible dalam hal mencintai kita, artinya cinta kita dan dia sama besarnya tidak ada yang lebih besar atau lebih kecil. Manusia memang selalu punya rencana tapi Tuhan jua lah yang menentukan apakah rencana kita bisa terlaksana atau tidak.

Friend of mine has situation that she has to choose between mencintai dan dicintai, she's looking for the answer by asking God which one she should choose, but then she said God didn't give any answer. I said to her, maybe God gave you hints but you ignore all those hints as you have your own will for that.

Just follow what your heart says, we are only the outsider, you're the one who will live your life. Trust your judgement, but if your judgement was wrong then you have to take any consequenses of your choice. Whatever happens, i'm sure it will make you stronger than ever in facing the future.

If you have to choose, what would u choose, mencintai atau dicintai?

4 comments:

Peo said...

Sorry but my bahasa is poor " mencintai " is " to love " and dicintai " to be loved " or what ?
Both verbs related to love but i can't get the clue.. Peluk
Peo- peosili@yahoo.it

Ecky said...

Hi Peo, "mencintai" is be in love with someone and "dicintai" is being loved by someone. Lemme know if u still don't get it :)

Peo said...

Thanks Ecky, i got it . I guessed it almost right...In my opinion your friend should chose mencintai.. So nice to be in love..Until that feeling lasts...
Hati hati

Farika said...

Enakan dicintai! Pilihan ada di kita, mo mencintai dia ato ngga :p